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02-22-2011, 12:24 AM
In the film ‘Basic Instinct’ Michael Douglas (the detective) asks Sharon Stone (the millionairess) whether she enjoyed having sex with her ex-lover. She replies that she liked having sex with him because he was “good with his hands”.

Male technique in pleasuring a woman is more likely to relate to how a man uses his hands during sex than his (not a nice word)(not a nice word)(not a nice word)(not a nice word)(not a nice word). Pleasurable touching includes sensitive stroking, gentle licking and light teasing caresses. Men need soft hands and the use of a specialised lubricant from a sex shop will help.

“Keep things slippery with your favorite lube and spend the evening at home with your sweetie ‘watching a video’.” (Sex toys: a playfully 101 uninhibited guide 2003)

If you are curious about sex toys, take a look at the female-friendly websites: BabelandNY.com for the US or the Canada based bittenlip.com. Sex shops are no longer sleazy or embarrassing places. Go with your partner or a friend. The atmosphere is casual and relaxed and shop assistants are always happy to give help and advice. More women are shopping for toys and many shop assistants are female. The Sh! Store in London aims to be super-female friendly and asks men to go only with a woman friend.

Sex tips for guys and girls

If you’re aiming for ‘quality sex’ then you need to invest in enjoying sexual pleasure together on a more mutual basis. Once in a while make a special effort to bring some variety to sex by spicing up your sex life.

Here are some suggestions for how to get laid:

* Make sure that you always offer some pleasure for your partner as well as for yourself. Have champagne by the bath. Spend some money on your sexual time together. Basically – live the fantasy!
* Sex sessions with a partner that include a sensual massage can be relaxing and enjoyable for the woman even when orgasm is missing.
* Try something new. Visit a sex shop! Then plan with your partner and introduce something new as a special occasion - anticipation helps!
* Allow her some space for her orgasm even it that means being supportive of her time alone to enjoy her orgasm. It may make her more supportive of the times when you are the only one having the orgasm.

The easy way out for a man to appease his sexual frustration is to put pressure on his partner without considering how to make sex more rewarding for her. A man can learn to enjoy arousing his partner while the woman enjoys being pampered. The woman needs to support the man’s initiative by reacting encouragingly!

“Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are turned on by what they see.” (p23 Bluffer’s Guide to Men 1998)





In an effort to be greener in the bedroom, and more conscious about the substances we are putting in our bodies, the We-Vibe is Phthalate-free.

So what does that mean, and why should you care?

Well beyond being hard to pronounce, pronounced THA-lates, phthalates are chemicals used in plastics to make them more flexible and smooth.

And unfortunately, most sex toys and couples sex toys contain them for exactly those reasons. According to analysis by the Canadian Cancer Society, some phthalates, as they can leach into the body, can cause fertility problems and liver abnormalities. There is also speculation that they can lead to birth defects in fetuses of already pregnant women. Because of these findings and the high toxicity, the FDA has banned it from children's toys and pet toys.

Although leaching can be effectively reduced and potentially avoided with the use of a condom over your toys, the safest strategy is to buy only toys and vibrators that are marked phthalate free before taking into your bed.

One quick way to distinguish phthalates is by their strong chemical smell. So give your couples sex toy a sniff, and if you smell something like a new shower curtain, stay away!

The We-Vibe, designed in Canada by Standard Innovation Corporation, is the world's most popular rechargeable vibrator for couples. Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever vibrator that can be used while making love. The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless vibrator. Created from 100% medical grade silicone, it's soft, comfortable and easy to use. This product is available at an affordable price.